You want to make a major change(s) in your life. This is a change that just might anger people. It may alienate them. It may make some miss the you they know. They may worry about what other people will think of you, or think less of you themselves. They may worry about your future, or their future with you. They may even be concerned for your physical safety. You are 99% sure that this change will make you a much happier and a more productive (in all aspects) person. When you consider whether or not to make that change, who's feelings come first.